81 episodes

Aaron and Jenna have been married for over a decade and love talking to people about their relationships, the messiness, the struggle and the victories in all of it. If you're married or planning on it, you can expect 1) Tools for the growth of your marriage and you personally 2) Hope for a healthy marriage no matter what you've experienced up to this point 3) Laughter and comfort when you say, "That's totally us!" and "We've been there!" If you've enjoyed our podcasts, would you consider financially supporting the show?We set-up a secure way for you to do that. This helps the Zints to continue to be able to prioritize making content for you! We appreciate it so much!http://patreon.com/TheHabitLab

Marriage Lab Aaron & Jenna Zint

    • Society & Culture
    • 5.0 • 131 Ratings

Aaron and Jenna have been married for over a decade and love talking to people about their relationships, the messiness, the struggle and the victories in all of it. If you're married or planning on it, you can expect 1) Tools for the growth of your marriage and you personally 2) Hope for a healthy marriage no matter what you've experienced up to this point 3) Laughter and comfort when you say, "That's totally us!" and "We've been there!" If you've enjoyed our podcasts, would you consider financially supporting the show?We set-up a secure way for you to do that. This helps the Zints to continue to be able to prioritize making content for you! We appreciate it so much!http://patreon.com/TheHabitLab

    3 Unpopular Opinions About Porn

    3 Unpopular Opinions About Porn

    3 Unpopular Opinions About Porn
    Your porn use is not a reflection on your spouse. That is, it's not their faultPorn is not your problem. Porn is the solution you've chosen to the real problemYou and God cannot fix this. It must be you and God and other people. >>> Would you consider financially supporting our shows?
    We set-up a secure way for you to do that. This helps Jenna & Aaron to continue to be able to prioritize making content for you! We appreciate it so much.

    Simply click on this link & you'll support both of the Zints' podcasts!!
    patreon.com/TheHabitLab

    Check out our website ZintSquad.com for coaching individual and couple's coaching appointments, Aaron's book, Jenna's Habit Lab Mastery Course and more.

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    • 41 min
    How to Stop Fighting Over Stupid Stuff

    How to Stop Fighting Over Stupid Stuff

    Have you ever said, "We got in a big fight about something so small and stupid!" It happens in every marriage when there is emotional pain behind a "small and stupid" logistical problem. 

    In this episode, Jenna and Aaron reverse engineer their fight about a toothbrusher charger and how something so small and stupid had the potential to create a lot of disconnection but didn't. 
    >>> Would you consider financially supporting our shows?
    We set-up a secure way for you to do that. This helps Jenna & Aaron to continue to be able to prioritize making content for you! We appreciate it so much.

    Simply click on this link & you'll support both of the Zints' podcasts!!
    patreon.com/TheHabitLab

    Check out our website ZintSquad.com for coaching individual and couple's coaching appointments, Aaron's book, Jenna's Habit Lab Mastery Course and more.

    Please review, subscribe and share your favorite episodes with a friend!

    • 27 min
    Fairness: The Connection Killer

    Fairness: The Connection Killer

    Do you know what prolongs most conflict? The thing that keeps people stuck in disconnect? The pursuit of fairness.

    Why? Because it hinders love itself. Jesus didn't model fairness in His life or sacrifice. He modeled sacrificial love. 

    Love, as Jesus modeled it, will transform your marriage. 
    >>> Would you consider financially supporting our shows?
    We set-up a secure way for you to do that. This helps Jenna & Aaron to continue to be able to prioritize making content for you! We appreciate it so much.

    Simply click on this link & you'll support both of the Zints' podcasts!!
    patreon.com/TheHabitLab

    Check out our website ZintSquad.com for coaching individual and couple's coaching appointments, Aaron's book, Jenna's Habit Lab Mastery Course and more.

    Please review, subscribe and share your favorite episodes with a friend!

    • 28 min
    Deconstructing Gender Roles with Megan & Dalen Philp

    Deconstructing Gender Roles with Megan & Dalen Philp

    In this episode, our friends Megan and Dalen Philp (not Philips...woops sorry guys) share the hope they found in their marriage of 20 years after they began to deconstruct the gender roles that they'd held onto so inflexibly for so many years. 
    >>> Would you consider financially supporting our shows?
    We set-up a secure way for you to do that. This helps Jenna & Aaron to continue to be able to prioritize making content for you! We appreciate it so much.

    Simply click on this link & you'll support both of the Zints' podcasts!!
    patreon.com/TheHabitLab

    Check out our website ZintSquad.com for coaching individual and couple's coaching appointments, Aaron's book, Jenna's Habit Lab Mastery Course and more.

    Please review, subscribe and share your favorite episodes with a friend!

    • 53 min
    10 Helpful Beliefs About Sharing Pain

    10 Helpful Beliefs About Sharing Pain

    In this episode, we break down 10 helpful beliefs about sharing pain.

    Get the infographic notes here.
    >>> Would you consider financially supporting our shows?
    We set-up a secure way for you to do that. This helps Jenna & Aaron to continue to be able to prioritize making content for you! We appreciate it so much.

    Simply click on this link & you'll support both of the Zints' podcasts!!
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    Check out our website ZintSquad.com for coaching individual and couple's coaching appointments, Aaron's book, Jenna's Habit Lab Mastery Course and more.

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    • 59 min
    7 Unhelpful Beliefs About Sharing Pain

    7 Unhelpful Beliefs About Sharing Pain

    Jenna and Aaron share 7 unhelpful beliefs people have (they themselves used to have) about sharing pain with your spouse. Stay tuned for an episode on the helpful beliefs!

    Here is a review of those 7 unhelpful beliefs:


    Tell them everything I’m thinkingReveal to them how they hurt meGet them to see how they failed meI can resolve my hurt by hearing an apology/admission of guiltThis is urgent. Don’t go to bed angry (two sleepy dysregulated people are horrible communicators)The goal of conflict is to eliminate future pain or to become pain freeIt’s a one and done. If we can have this convo long enough we will fix it once and for all
    Please rate, review & share the podcast!

    >>> Would you consider financially supporting our shows? >> Would you consider financially supporting our shows? >> Would you consider financially supporting our shows?
    We set-up a secure way for you to do that. This helps Jenna & Aaron to continue to be able to prioritize making content for you! We appreciate it so much.

    Simply click on this link & you'll support both of the Zints' podcasts!!
    patreon.com/TheHabitLab

    Check out our website ZintSquad.com for coaching individual and couple's coaching appointments, Aaron's book, Jenna's Habit Lab Mastery Course and more.

    Please review, subscribe and share your favorite episodes with a friend!

    • 25 min

Customer Reviews

5.0 out of 5
131 Ratings

131 Ratings

Seth Moerkerke ,

Life-changing!!

This podcast, and the Zint’s are absolute life-changers. My heart has opened up and I’ve learned more about myself and how to communicate via these two, than I ever have!

Mario Garza ,

So good.

Seriously. These guys are ninjas and this pod is next level.

Budget Boss Maker ,

Thank you!

Thank you for the laughter and the authenticity you bring to such hard situations in marriage and in life. It helps me feel not alone, but also I’ve had so many needed realization from listening to you both communicate in these episodes! I just listened to the May 16th episode and wow did it hit home for. It helped me see an issue I have in a way that gives me hope in fixing it because it now makes sense. At this point in my life I can’t not express how important this is and how thankful for your podcast. God is truly working through you!

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